Where exactly can I get this list?

Well, first understand that bitcoin is actually just a computer program.

In order to start using the list to transact with people, you first need to download the software. Once you start running Bitcoin on your computer, you are officially part of the network!

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Other computers in the network will automatically see that you have joined, and they will send you a copy of the transaction list. Now you know exactly what the list of names and balances should look like.

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The list is just stored by everyone who wants a copy. Anyone is free to download the bitcoin software and will be sent their own copy once they are in.

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